One day (time frame irre levant) I met with a dear friend of mine, also an Xer. She has childre n who happen to still attend NTCC after she left. One of her childre n was engaged to be married. The fiancé to this party had been pre viously married. The ex-spouse abandoned and left the re lationship and childre n. This single pare nt has been raising the childre n. My friends’ child would happily marry and become a part of their life and begin a new family.
As plans were being made, clothing purchased for the big event, etc. Mr. Sneak & Don’t tell Kinson told this young couple, ‘well I don’t know if you two would be living in sin because this one was married before ; so we can’t marry you two in the chapel, BUT I’ll marry you in my office.’ WHAT – WHAT?? Really??? IF, IF they were indeed doing something against God, IF they were indeed going to be married in sin, HOW, PLEASE tell me HOW would marrying them in the secre tive walls of your office will make it right? Please – I’d love to know how. Would you have acted like you didn’t do it and let the people judge as they will? Because you and your people DO judge.
That’s one of the biggest problems YOU ALL JUDGE. I have one tip, one word of advice. It is in verse 5 below:
Matthew 7:1-5:
Judge not, that ye be not judged.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but conside
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
HYPOCRITE get the hypocrisy out of your own life FIRST then you will see God is a God of grace, love, and mercy. WHO are you to judge? NTCC’er – WHY do you judge? If you’re still in and judging others – you’re no more saved than your borg leaders. You all talk about those of us who left and got true salvation, but why don’t you ask your leaders why doing something like this is okay? I’d love to know why myself. You won’t get an answer.
I don’t judge them for being married. It’s not my job to do. In fact, I pray that God will bless them and that they grow in His grace, love, and mercy. I pray they will find true peace and happiness and never again re turn to NTCC. I’m happy for them they married AND they didn’t get married at NTCC. Fortunately the families both said NO we want to see you get married not stand in some office. Another church welcomed them in to use their facility. They didn’t judge them. They welcomed them, the way a church should do.
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What a bunch of hypocrites. The ntcc is a meat market and they have encouraged divorce and caused divorce. They have destroyed so many lives and broken up families for years. Phil Kinson has too many skeletons in his own closet to be judging others.
They are so much like the Pharisees it isn't funny. Forbidding to marry and deciding which marriages they want to end according to who they want to keep around. They basically play God and judge people according to whatever works best for them.
It is pretty hypocritical for Kinson to offer to perform a marriage for someone only behind closed doors in an office, but every thing they do is flaky. I've often heard NTCC ministers say things like we don't do this in public for testimony sake, or we don't do that in front of others for testimony sake. Usually it's something that the minister doesn't want to be caught doing because he doesn't want to answer questions that expose his own hypocrisy. Like this: Pastor why are you playing Volleyball when Double standard Davis used to preach against it? To avoid questions like that they would make sure that the brothers that would ask those kinds of questions were not included in the fun. Or they were worried about people losing the victory over stuff so they would conceal their actions from those individuals. For instance, they would say, "Be careful who you tell N jokes to, they might lose the victory". They didn't want to answer the question: "Why are you telling N jokes, are you prejudice?
That's the kind of thing that the Pharisees always did, and Jesus called them out for it all the time, and so did Paul.
Rom 2:22 "Thou that sayest a man should not commit adultery, dost thou commit adultery? thou that abhorrest idols, dost thou commit sacrilege?"
With real Christians, what you see is what you get.
D n A Said: They basically play God and judge people according to whatever works best for them.
AND: That's the kind of thing that the Pharisees always did, and Jesus called them out for it all the time, and so did Paul.
Kat Says:Playing God - yes they do! Judging - YES, they do and they tell others not to judge! HA they are King & Queen at judging. If you judge them then you're jealous, angry, of the devil.
Pharisees indeed! They play the game of do what I say and not what I do! Only the borgies can ask questions and make the rules. Follow thy commandments - there should be a new bible written just for them . . . . Maybe they can't. It would cost too much money. They'd have to make a new one with every new rule. Throw it away and disregard any previous laws THUS SAYETH BORG-gods.
They make me sick.
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